The Gottman Couples Weekend Workshop Comes to New York City March 10 & 11

“The best thing we ever did for our relationship.” – J. & J., New York City
“We understand each other now in a way I never thought possible. A game changer.” – N. & K., Philadephia, PA

The Gottman Art & Science of Love Weekend Workshop

“I wish we did this years ago—and it was fun!” – B. & E., Englewood, NJ
“We are now more confident than ever. Very practical.” – G. & K., Westport, CT

♡ Happy Valentine's Day! ♡

“Finally, we have the tools we need. A must for every couple!” – P. & N., Great Neck, NY
“We learned more in 2 days than we did in years of couples therapy.” – R. & A., Scarsdale, NY

  • Percentage of Couples Who Experience Positive Results After Attending 86%

Why don’t they teach this stuff in school? The best way to ensure that you and your partner beat the odds and have a long, satisfying relationship is to take action to get the skills and training you need—together. This workshop educational, is not therapy, and no public disclosure and group work takes place. 

WORKSHOP TOPICS

1. The five basic questions:

  • How is your marriage/relationship doing?
  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?
  • If your relationship is in trouble, how can you turn it around?
  • If your relationship is doing well, how can you ensure that your relationship will continue to grow?
  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?

2. Assessing your relationship

  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your relationship/marriage
  • Identify your relationship’s specific strengths and how to build on these
  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may impede conflict resolution
  • Learn the small, easy steps that increase romance in your relationship

3. Building a “Sound Relationship House”

  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for intimacy
  • Use the Fondness and Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another
  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress
  • Develop your problem-solving skills, including the four techniques of effective conflict resolution: Softened Start-up, Accepting Influence, Repair Work, and De-escalation
  • Find out how you can make your dreams and aspirations come true for you, your partner, and your relationship
WORKSHOP TOPICS

1. The five basic questions:

  • How is your marriage/relationship doing?
  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?
  • If your relationship is in trouble, how can you turn it around?
  • If your relationship is doing well, how can you ensure that your relationship will continue to grow?
  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?

2. Assessing your relationship

  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your relationship/marriage
  • Identify your relationship’s specific strengths and how to build on these
  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may impede conflict resolution
  • Learn the small, easy steps that increase romance in your relationship

3. Building a “Sound Relationship House”

  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for intimacy
  • Use the Fondness and Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another
  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress
  • Develop your problem-solving skills, including the four techniques of effective conflict resolution: Softened Start-up, Accepting Influence, Repair Work, and De-escalation
  • Find out how you can make your dreams and aspirations come true for you, your partner, and your relationship

Purchase Workshop Passses

Workshops are kept small – space is limited.

New York NEW DATES FOR 2018! New Jersey